Phase

There always is, this one phase that not just manages to wring you but also somehow knocks you in such a way that you loose all your sanity. In these trying times what one really needs is someone to support. And when I say support I mean sustain us in this phase, but then I have also learned one golden lesson that has made me think on the grounds that no one can really do that for us, we are always on our own, searching for these people is as good as trying to touch the moon standing on the building terrace, though you may feel that you are at the top but in reality you are no where and what may be high for you may not be high at all.

            And believe it or not when you realize, not only are you crushed but also you die million deaths and still live on to feel and see the pain. Now that is the lesson not everyone really wants to avoid and yes one more thing does it really matter you go through it or someone else does because the only way one learns when this experience  is of someone very near and dear to us, then isn’t it better it is us than them????????